We have had our differences,
but when push came to shove,
I realized all I want to do
is sincerely wish you love.

Reflecting on our quarrels,
I've learned life is just too brief
to fill these finite minutes
with such anger and such grief.

I will never get returned to me
those minutes spent in sorrow,
but from them, I vow to cherish
all the minutes of tomorrow.

Releasing pain and vengeance,
my soul has been set free
for a lighter, brighter, open heart
now beats inside of me.

Never disregard opponents,
and the bridges you may burn,
because out of those ashes,
emerge the lessons we must learn.

I've become a better person --
resilient, poised and strong.
Your actions brought to the surface
what was there all along.

I never thought I could be grateful
for the angst and the pain.
But, I'm more thankful for the sun
since being soaked by the rain.

I've encountered my own limits
and I'm proud to say, it's true,
my heart hasn't the ability
to hate the way you do.

Gratitude surrounds my days
like a hand inside a glove.
For that I thank you, adversary
and again, must wish you love.

I hope someday you will suppress
the animosity and hate,
because that's exactly what I did
and I tell you, it feels great!

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